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One of the Wisest Investments
You'll Ever Make
by Lyle Evans
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If you think this is about stocks, bonds, real estate, gold,
jewels, etc., you're wrong! All of these can be good
investments, but your children are the wisest investment
you'll ever make. Teaching your children to be well-rounded
individuals will help them out in the long run to fit into and
contribute to society. As they contribute in society this in
turn helps out everyone, including you as a parent.
Giving your children the right skills and knowledge can be one
of the most rewarding and wisest choices you'll every make.
Think about it: Who is the one that should have the most
influence on your children? It is a parent. Parents can work
with their children at a young age helping them develop skills
that will last a lifetime. These skills cannot be learned
overnight. As parents you must let your children see you
applying the skills you are trying to teach them.
There are a number of areas in which parents can help their
children develop. Some of these areas would include: a good
work ethic, ability to work and interact with others in many
settings, good ethics and respect for the laws of the land,
good understanding of financial matters and learning at a
young age to work toward financial independence.
A good work ethic is a skill that is developed over
time. As an employer or business owner, you appreciate the
efforts that are extended in your work or business. As an
employee you should feel satisfaction in working hard and
accomplishing whatever task you may be working on and in being
honest with your employer. Employees that work hard will get
noticed by their employer and treated accordingly.
Teach your children at a young age to work hard and do their
chores. Young children should be given chores or small jobs to
do. By doing this at a young age your children will learn
responsibility and learn not to quit when the going gets
rough. Having a good work ethic will help determine what kind
of earning power your children will have as adults. If your
children can be taught these skills while they are young they
are more likely to be financially secure in years to come.
Children that have been taught the skills of getting along
with others in different social settings will have an
advantage when they become adults. The advantage will come
into play when they interact with other people in business,
social, and financial settings. For example: In the business
world you run into all kinds of people and you need to know
how to act in order to be successful. These skills can be
taught to young children by letting them interact with
children similar in age and, as the children get older, be
involved in activities with other children.
By doing this the children learn good social skills and
witness different attitudes and types of people. The more your
children have chances to interact with other children during
their growing up years, the better their social skills are and
the better they are at dealing with other people. During this
time that your children interact with others you will want to
visit with them to see if they have issues concerning the way
other children act or behave. When you talk with your children
you will help them understand the correct way to handle
different situations that come up.
Helping your children to develop good ethics for country
and laws of the land is very important. Good examples from
parents are one of the main keys in helping your children
develop these skills. If your children see you obeying the
laws of the land, including paying your taxes, they will see
that this important. Talk to your children about the laws of
the land. Tell them that you may not always agree with all the
laws, but nonetheless they are the laws and must be followed.
Let them know that as citizens there is a process that can be
followed to change the laws when we don't agree with them.
Discuss with your children why we pay taxes and what tax
dollars are used for. As your children understand that tax
money is what supports the government and a lot of the
programs we have in society, they will begin to understand the
importance of paying taxes. It would also be good to discuss
with your children areas in government where the money is not
spent wisely. Let them know that the government is not
fiscally responsible all the time. There are areas for
improvement. Discuss with your children ways you or they can
get involved in government of local issues. Volunteering time
for community activities will help your children gain the
spirit of community service. As your children serve in the
community they are more likely to become better citizens and
obey the laws of the land.
Financial independence is a goal we all should be
working for. It is very important that you teach your children
ways to become financially independent. They are most likely
to learn these skills from you as the parents. While your
children are young make them aware of what you are doing in
your investments and long term financial planning. When your
children get older let them get involved in your financial
planning and help them to do some of their own investing. If
you can start setting aside some money for your children
shortly after they are born, they will then have some money to
start investing when they get old enough to learn and take
part.
You as the parents have the greatest opportunity to influence
your children to become well-rounded individuals. If you are
willing to invest in your children's future, they can develop
a good work ethic, build good social skills, become
outstanding citizens in their local communities and become
financially independent. The investment is definitely worth
it, because one day your children may be the leaders of the
future.
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© Simple Joe, Inc.
Lyle Evans is a quality control specialist for Simple Joe,
Inc., makers of the popular Simple Joe's Expense Tracker PC
software. Expense Tracker is a quick and simple way to keep
track of your expenses and stay within your budget.
Expense Tracker is ideal for tracking personal, business, home
and club expenses.. This article may be freely distributed
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